ditz

per farvi amore con

ritiene come mille felicità

ritiene come mille eternity

la fantasia che cercherò sempre

fino a che non portiate la realtà,

per voi non posso detestare

"What’s most important is not what others think about you……….

Prologue

My cuzin gave me her gem stones’s prediction and what came up were the issues on communication, health & relationship. The advises were to learn to love & appreaciate myself more.

The research

* To feel good about yourself, you need to accept yourself. Look at yourself positively, realize there is no such thing as a perfect person. If You are unhappy with yourself, then do somethin about it lah yau..!

* To survive, it is important that we feel good about ourselves and carry an inner strength so we can live a healthy, happy and productive life. Deal with your problems and emotions, it’s the way to grow mentally, physically and spiritually. It’s not how we look on the outside that’s important, its how we feel on the inside that matters. 

* To live with & accept yourself, open your heart, listen to what it’s telling you inside. Have the courage to ask your heart why you refuse to love yourself the way you are. I think, when we are unhappy with ourselves, it’s becoz we are embarrassed about whatever we are trying to hide, right?? Give yourself pat in the back lah..:)

Some little tips from me

1. Accept yourself for who you are
2. Understand yourself mentally, physically, & spiritually
3. Learn to control your mind, body & emotions
4. Strengthen your inner-self & make it apparent to others
5. Begin changing what you don’t like about yourself
6. Notice the change in you self-esteem & self-confident
7. Have a tremendous amount of pride in yourself

…………it’s how you feel about yourself"

Nda tau knapa teringat film Serendipity, one of those movies yg unfortunately captured my mind banget..something about your fate, well..sort of.

It means: propensity for finding things by chance or in unexpected places.

In other words: phenomenon of making fortunate accidental discoveries.

Oh well..still, I believe he’s a Serendipitous..

f a r t o e x p e r i e n c e t h e l o v e

a b i z z a r e l o v e b i f u r c a t i o n

               a f a d e d

               k i n d o f

              d a y l o v e

t h e h a l l u c i n a t i n g s c e n t

c a n ‘ t t a k e m y m i n d o f y o u

A simple review by a friend: Kondisi apa sih yang complicated ? So far I know..semua kondisi bisa dipecahin kok…

i.e:

A. Pacaran jarak jauh (a.k.a long distance relationship)?

Akh gampang tuh khan teknologi udah canggih..

B. Pacaran sama yang lebih muda ?

Usia bukan masalah deh….

C. Pacaran sama yang beda bangsa or agama ?

hmmm ini tergantung orangnya yah… tapi emang kalau seagama jg menjamin langgeng? kenyataannya yang beda banyak tuh yang langgeng contoh Katon & Ira, Lidya K & Jamal M… so many kalau gw sebutin…

D. Pacaran sama yang berkeluarga ?

nah ini baru buat gw masalah… soalnya gw paling nggak setuju apapun alasannya… kayak nggak ada yang single ajah…

Note from writer: Sebenernyaa..there’s a lot more on the ‘complicated’ term siy..(such as my current situation), but I agreed that the complicated situation was made by both parts. It amazed me that the option appeared in Friendster!

Movie: Romeo & Juliet

Casts: Leonardo DiCaprio & Claire Danes

Watched the movie long time ago siy, but just saw its pictures and couldn’t help not to comment. Well..kind of (not very) old movie though! Despite the ‘ngga banget’ ending, the movie was cool. The question is, why they had to die in such a useless way?? Ngga penting banget gitu loh..=P

Nowadays the story had been adapted in the real life here & there. Is that so wrong to love someone without having intervention from everywhere? Couldn’t please everybody kan? Hehe..I think the important thing is the person itself. If he/she has the will to fight, together with the partner, of course, then there’s a will there’s a way!

Anyways, the movie was sad enough to say that the couple had mislead to somewhere else than to fight for each other’s sake. For those who are still struggling the similar situation, fight will you??!!

Song: A Time For Us

Lyrics: And with our love, through tears and thorns we will endure as we pass surely through every storm..A time for us, some day there’ll be a new world, a world of shining hope for you and me..

Pic: 

= tempting 

= appealing

= attractive

= alluring

= charming

note: someone i called ’simply irresistible’ just asked me to describe the ‘irresistible-ness’..

Grow Up

..means to grow wiser each day

to appreciate more fully the joy that life sends your way..

..means finding pleasure in little things

to plan and dream without forgetting the joy that past has brought..

..means to value having friends and loved ones

to learn from each experience and cherish every year

Happy Bday..