ditz

= bodoh
= lucu
= (sedikit) gila
= panggilan sayang
(bukan begitu doenkdoenk??) huehehee..

Have faith that the people in your life only have the best intentions towards you. You may not be able to see what they are right away, but all this hope will result in an astounding piece of luck for you..

..One leaf for fame..
…One leaf for wealth…
….One leaf for a faithfull lover….
…..One leaf for glorious health…..
All in this four-leafed clover

"Kalau ingin mencintai, lo harus belajar untuk mencintai dulu.."

Film si Duta So7 ini ada filosofinya juga ternyata..emang sih, just another Indo movie..but despite that, it has something..tepatnya in its dialogues. Ada scene yang lumayan influenced me to write this blog. Scene si Abi (Duta) lagi dinasehatin temennya..(wise juga si temennya itu, secara masih sama-sama ABG juga..:P)

"Kalo lo pgn lari, belajar jalan dulu..kalo lo pengen brenang, belajar ngapung dulu..dan kalo lo pengen mencintai, belajar mencintai dulu.."

Well..what do u think? Is it that hard to love? Meskipun banyak yang deny this fact, but yes..it is hard to actually love someone..Love, dalam artian, give effort, dedicate (almost) all your life to the one u love, understanding all his/her attitude..and i think the last one would be the hardest part among all..

Sometimes..(unconciously) we selfishly want the other to understand us totally, without realize that we didn’t give the same to them..what we think are un-important, might be very crucial to the other..and sadly, not everybody could realize this to fulfill the needs..

Seperti yang dihatiku..Ku slalu merasakan debar ini..Walau slalu terjalin satu benci..Namun akankah..kau mengerti..Tak tau dimanakah awalnya..Rasa ini tumbuh dengan tulus..Dan apakah ini akan berakhir..Semuanya diluar kuasaku..(Shanty;Tak Berawal Tak Berakhir)

Do we need to change the other..or should we take everything just the way they were? Hmm..tough question? Yes, "I love u just the way u are"..(with a little bit of changes in your bad habit would be nice..) Admit it lah..Seldom we ask them to change their attitude..to change the appearance..for "better performance" reason? or to fulfill our ego? They say, if u love someone, u don’t try to change them..well, it’s just another idealism..

So..kalau ingin mencintai, belajar lah dulu mencintai..or should I say, kalau ingin DICINTAI, belajarlah dulu mencintai? More accurate i think..